Of course, even if your boyfriend conveniently forgets the holiday where he's suppose to celebrate that he has a girlfriend, you can still have an amazing day. Take this advice, and stop staring at the sky for a glimpse of Cupid.
Don't have huge expectations.
Plan a low-key event.
Just because it's Valentine's Day doesn't
mean you have to go on a date to some fancy-schmancy restaurant and
spend a lot of money. You could have a casual indoor picnic, or perhaps
go to your local planetarium and have a romantic night under the stars
no matter what the weather.
Do something special for yourself.
Whether you have a beau or
not, you should still take some time out for yourself on Valentine's
Day. Treat yourself to a day at the zoo, or buy a brand new journal and
fill it with artistic doodles. Take some time out for yourself and
remember that you're pretty cool with or without a Valentine.
Hang with pals.
If you don't want to bother doing the whole
couple thing, you can always hang out with a group of friends too. This
means the pressure is off both of you to be super-romantic, and you can
just be yourselves with each other and your friends. Anyone for a
love-filled night of bowling?
Don't freak out over gifts.
This isn't Christmas or Hanukkah, so
there's really no reason to buy him a bunch of stuff, or to expect a
basket full of goodies from him. A simple, thoughtful gift should do the
trick. He might like some homemade cookies or the latest issue of his
favorite comic. But don't get out of control by using all your savings
to buy him a scooter.
Make a Valentine for someone who needs it.
Remember how Charlie
Brown
felt when no one gave him a Valentine?Ê Do your part to save someone's
mood by
making them a card. It doesn't have to be elaborate, but a cute card
with a train that says "I choo-choose you to be my Valentine" is bound
to make the grumpiest pal giggle.
Hug your mom.
Okay, I realize this is hokey and has zero to do
with boys, but when was the last time you hugged your mom for no reason
other than you love her? Valentine's Day isn't just about showing how
much you care about your boyfriend, but also your friends and family.
Your folks might get a little suspicious of all those unprovoked hugs,
but once they see it's not because you want a raise in your allowance,
they'll appreciate the gesture.
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